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Date rape

What is rape?

Generally speaking, rape is defined as forced sexual intercourse with any person without consent. Force may involve physical violence, coercion, or threat of harm. This includes situations where the victim is drunk, drugged, asleep, unconscious, or for any reason unable to give consent. Basically, not saying yes. Rape can be committed by a stranger, an acquaintance, a friend, a date... by anyone.

Rape is the most prevalent, serious violent crime committed on college campuses. In 1985 a survey of over 6,000 students on 32 college campuses was conducted by Ms. magazine, psychologist Mary P. Koss, and the National Institute for Mental Health. 

According to this nationwide survey:

  • 53% of the women surveyed reported some form of sexual assault
  • 1 in 4 women surveyed reported being victims of rape or attempted rape
  • 84% of the women who reported being raped knew their attackers
  • 57% of the rapes happened on dates

According to these statistics

Date and acquaintance rape is more common than: 

  • Alcoholism
  • Heart Attacks
  • Left-handedness

Thus, there is a high probability that you will, in some way, be affected by issues of rape before you leave college.

Rape victims rarely report

  • 42% of the victims told no one about their assaults.
  • Only 5% reported their rapes to the police.
  • Only 5% sought help at rape crisis centers.

Without reporting, many sexual assault victims will not receive the assistance they need, assailants will not be brought to justice, and the number of campus rapes will continue to escalate.

Many rapes follow a similar pattern

College students are more vulnerable to rape than any other age group. The developmental tasks associated with entering college tend to put college students at risk. Alcohol consumption only serves to accentuate these risks.

Acquaintance rapes are likely to occur in off-campus apartments, fraternity houses and residence hall rooms. Frequently, the students involved have been drinking heavily or using other drugs. According to the Ms. report:

  • About 75% of the men and at least 55% of the women involved in acquaintance rapes had been drinking or using illegal drugs just before the attack.

At SUNY Oswego

A random sample of 865 students were surveyed regarding their use of alcohol and related behaviors in spring 1993. According to these anonymous self-reports, a significant number of SUNY Oswego students had been taken advantage of sexually while under the influence of alcohol:

  • 17% of women taken advantage of while under the influence
  • 10% of men taken advantage of while under the influence

These statistics were taken from a general population and do not include cases of unwanted sexual contact where there was no alcohol involved.

Some things you should know

Below is a brief synopsis of Article 130 of the New York State Penal Law.

Rape

Description of Criminal Activity 

  • Sexual Intercourse with another person without consent and with an element of force. (Sexual intercourse carries the
    traditional meaning & occurs upon penetration.)

Punishment

  • Felony: 1 year to 25 years
Sodomy

Description of Criminal Activity 

  • Anyone engaging in Deviate Sexual Intercourse with another person, with or without consent.

Punishment

  • Felony: 1 to 25 years
  • Misdemeanor: 15 days to 1 year
Sexual Misconduct

Description of Criminal Activity 

  • A male engaging in Sexual Intercourse or Deviate Sexual Intercourse with another person, without consent.

Punishment

  • Misdemeanor: 15 days to 1 year
Sexual Abuse

Description of Criminal Activity 

  • The touching of the intimate parts of a person by either the offender or the victim either directly or through the clothing, for the purpose of sexual gratification.

Punishment

  • Felony: 1 to 7 years
  • Misdemeanor: 15 days to 1 year
Aggravated Sexual Abuse

Description of Criminal Activity 

  • Inserting the finger or another object into the vagina, urethra, penis or rectum of another without consent, causing physical injury.

Punishment

  • Felony: 1 year to 25

College Judicial System

The Code of Student Rights, Responsibilities and Conduct (found in the Student Handbook) details expectations for behavior which are intended to protect the well-being of all members of the college community and support the institution's educational objectives. In referring to Section 43.D. of the code, it is clear that:

Imposition of sexual contact upon, or physical exposure to, another individual without consent is strictly prohibited by the college. Students found in violation of this section of the code may be subject to suspension or expulsion from the college. Where a violation of college policy is also a violation of law, the student is subject to both legal prosecution and college disciplinary action.

Play it safe

Know your sexual desires and limits

Communicate your limits clearly and early. If you are not sure, stop and talk about it.

Be aware of your nonverbal messages

Acknowledge the possibility of misunderstandings.

Pay attention to your surroundings

Be aware of what is happening around you to avoid vulnerable situations.

Trust your intuition

Acknowledge and attend to uncomfortable feelings regarding another person.

Accept and respect "no"

Remember that a "no" to sex does not mean a rejection of the person.

"No" means "no"

If you think that a "no" means "maybe," perhaps the physical intimacy is not in your best interest.

Do not assume anything.

Dressing in a sexy manner and flirtation is not an invitation for sexual intercourse.

Avoid excessive use of alcohol.

Alcohol and other drugs interfere with clear thinking, intuition, and communication.

Date-rape drugs

Rape and assault are a sad reality in our culture today. And it can happen to anyone. Even you.

When secretly slipped into a beverage of any type, sedating substances can leave anyone vulnerable to sexual assault. You may not be able to see it, smell it or taste it. And you don't have to be at a bar or club. It could happen in any social setting. 

The tragic fact is rape happens only because there are people who wish to harm others and to have power and control over them. But there are some things that you can do to help reduce your risk.

  • Always keep your beverage in sight at all times.
  • At a bar or club, accept drinks only from the bartender or server.
  • At social gatherings and parties, don't accept open-container drinks from anyone!
  • Don't take drugs of any kind. The effects of these sedating drugs can be lethal as they suppress your ability to breathe. Be aware that the effects of many drugs are compounded with the consumption of alcohol.
  • Be aware that some "date rape" drugs, like GHB, or Gamma-hydroxybutyrate are being"home made" using the same caustic chemicals that are present in strong household cleaners. Taking these drugs mixtures, knowingly or unknowingly can have potentially lethal consequences.
  • If you experience dizziness, extreme drowsiness, or other sudden and unexplained symptoms, call someone you know and trust for help, or go to a hospital emergency room immediately. If possible try to retain a sample of the beverage for testing.
  • If you think you've been sexually assaulted, call the Rape Crisis Hotline (in the Oswego area the number is 315.342.1600) or call the police immediately. Don't be afraid to reach out for help. There are tests to prove you've been drugged, and a federal law that can help put the rapist in prison. Reporting quickly is vital.
  • So PLEASE, help reduce your risk... watch your drink!

This message is provided by the Oswego County District Attorney's Date-Rape Drug Committee a sub-committee of the Child Abuse Task Force, The Oswego County Drug Task Force, local Law Enforcement, SUNY Oswego and University Police, in collaboration with Hoffmann-La Roche.

Assistance is available

Beyond the physical injury associated with rape and sexual victimization, the emotional turmoil can be overwhelming for both the victim and those who care about the victim, including the conditions below. This is true whether or not the experience is identified as a sexual assault.

  • Anger
  • Anxiety 
  • Betrayal 
  • Fear 
  • Guilt
  • Mood Swings
  • Self-Blame 
  • Shame 
  • Sleep Disturbances 
  • Suicidal Ideation 

It is very important to know that if you or someone close to you has been affected by sexual assault, help is available, regardless of gender. You do not have to go through this experience alone.

Emotional support

  • SUNY Oswego Counseling Center 315.312.4416
  • Abuse & Assault Hotline (SAF) 315.342.1600

Advocacy

  • CARE/SAF (24-Hour Hotline) 315.342.1600SUNY
  • Oswego Women's Center 315.312.2967

Medical Assistance

  • SUNY Oswego Health Center 315.312.4100
  • Oswego Hospital Emergency Room 315.349.5522

Law Enforcement

  • NYS University Police at Oswego 315.312.5555
  • Oswego City Police 315.343.1212
  • Oswego County Sheriff's Dept. 315.343.5490
  • New York State Police 315.593.1223

Student Conduct

  • Campus Judicial 315.312.2240

University Police

Pathfinder Hall 
SUNY Oswego 
Oswego, NY 13126 

GPS coordinates:
43.450660, -76.547837

Contact Us

Phone: 315-312-5555

Email: [email protected]

Emergency Numbers

Campus ambulance: 315-312-5555
Emergency: 911
Oswego City Police: 911
Oswego County Sheriff's Department: 911